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Adam is worthy – To SweetSexySean

One of our best Twitter friends @sweetsexysean, posted this letter after watching Adam on Oprah today.  We were so moved by this young man’s sentiments, we wanted to share them with other Adam fans as some might gain insights into Adam’s extraordinary appeal or find themselves in Sean’s words.

On Tuesday 19th January 2010, @sweetsexysean said:

I know many don’t understand….. I also know there are many who do understand but……. as a man, who is gay….. I found myself at first like any other fan, just happy and excited to see Adam on Oprah. SO EXCITED! LOL I was counting down the minutes with all of you. LOL

As the show started and my Husband, Jake, came home. We sat on the couch together and watched. We listened as Adam talked so eloquently and self-aware as he always does. So funny with humor and his own pure sweet and kind heart.

Jake was holding my hand and then lifted it up and kissed it during a commercial. I laughed and said, what’s that for? He said, “because you look so innocent and sweet with that huge smile on your face, waiting for the commercials to be over with and Adam to be back on.” LOL As Adam came back on and started to sing WWFM………..something came over me. Tears started to stream down my face, I felt such pride as I saw this man who has never lied, never hidden the fact of who he is, never tried to say, ‘oh it was just a joke’ or some other bullshit as so many before him have done. He was honest and open and he told the world, yes “I’m Gay” and so what? Deal with it! And there he was………on Oprah………OPRAH!!!!!!!!! The woman is a fucking Icon to THE WORLD and she was adoring him. SINGING ALONG with Adam word for word.

Oprah is right, Adam IS paving the way. I know he didn’t choose it. I know he may not have wanted it. But he is doing it and I thank him and love him for it even more………..if that’s possible. LOL

I have no doubt……….Adam is the key. He is the one. He will change and open minds and hearts. I know that is a lot to put on one man but the beautiful of it………Adam doesn’t have to do anything extra or special………..Adam just has to be Adam and the rest just falls into place.

What an amazing day. What a beautiful day. What an amazing and beautiful man Adam Lambert is from the inside out.

My Heart Is Full.

Peace, Love & Adam Always,


Dearest Sean,

You are so perceptive about Adam. True power and leadership are bestowed upon those who by thought and deed prove themselves of worthy character, and possessed of the courage and confidence to walk ahead into the darkness, with but a candle to illuminate the path ahead while shining spotlights for those who follow.

You Sweet Sean, your husband Jake and your friends, have an able role model who seeks not leadership or power, simply truth, honesty and opportunity. As you remind us, Adam remains true to himself and readily accepts the consequences of his actions and his sometimes painful candour, attributes we should all emulate. He is generous with praise, spreads it about like so much glitter powder, but you can’t pry undeserved rancour from him with a crowbar.

Have we ever heard him castigate another for any situation in which he was involved? It seemed so simple to ignore Out editor Hicklin’s contrived accusations toward Adam’s “people” and allow this misinformation about their interference in Adam’s image to just wash away like so much detritus. Adam tried to disregard it, but Out published another wacky piece so the lies could no longer be tolerated.  Adam faced the fabrications and informed Hicklin that all instructions, advice and requests originated with him.  Perfect.  Issue dead and no one will try that again.

Post AMA trauma and Adam had so many opportunities to spread the wealth of recriminations, yet he did nothing like that. Adam remained upright, at the other end of the phone to answer questions or accept personal appearance invitations, knowing full well what he would be asked.  No skulking in the cave for  him, no jetting off to hide, no “spokespeople”, just Adam, in person, answering sometimes ridiculous questions and even if for the twentieth time, he patiently answered again.  Finally, “ABC did what they thought they had to do” or something similar.  So did Adam’s fans do what we had to do and so did all the other networks. They invited him, he performed and we watched – it’s not that complicated!

Though unrequested and undesired, Adam reluctantly and now admittedly,  wears the mantle of leadership and he is one whose counsel should and will be sought.  There will be “Adam Lambert Case Studies” for Public Relations training – take heed those who anticipate becoming a public figure.  Some of Adam’s personal qualities are innate and some of course have been shaped by his parents, peers and the communities in which he grew up, all of whom he is quick to acknowledge and thank.

Are these tests of Adam’s character enough to suppress further nonsense?  Muckrakers are too ignorant to take a lesson and give up, or they would be gainfully employed, however their mischievous attempts to vilify Adam will fail as they lose credibility with their audience and the media.

Sean, I can’t think of anyone finer than Adam to merit your affection, admiration and emulation.

And sexy??? As Xena has pronounced before – any man who can get both women and men flinging panties, bras, boxers, briefs, thongs and jocks at him is the sexiest man alive.  The sexiest man is the one who makes you feel like you are the sexiest person in the room.  And here’s a man who can do it through the camera lens.  Any serious fans have their favourite “Adam is flirting with me” photo?  “Beth” anyone?  Fess up fans, which Adam is your desk top?  How many different “Adams” in your rogues’ gallery?  How many pair of Adam’s eyes look at you while you work?  Thought so.

We dubbed Adam the 21st century Beau Brummell for music, but his fastidiousness carries through to his very positive character and impeccable manners.  Truly what you see on the outside is a reflection of the man, as he continues to develop himself as a person of honour, respect and respectability, with a sense of humour, especially about himself and a finely tuned appreciation for the ridiculous, the campy, the creative.



Xena Princess Warrior is co-author with Juneau of the book, On the Meaning of Adam Lambert.

30 Comments leave one →
  1. Deidre permalink
    January 27, 2010 9:58 pm

    I’m sitting here bawling. Thank you, SSSean. Thank you, Xena. And thank you, Adam, for bringing so much love into our world.

    SweetSexySean, I adore your sign-off, “Peace, Love and Adam”. It just says it all, doesn’t it. I adore you. I hope that one day I will get to meet you and Jake face to face.

    • sweetsexysean permalink
      January 28, 2010 12:41 am


      Happy tears are always good! Adam does bring so much love to all of us.

      Thank you for your kind words……I hope to meet everyone some day!

      As for my sign off………just came to me one day. I was on AO and wrote a reply and put Peace & Love & Adam Always and I thought……. WOW……. those all fit soooo perfectly and so very Adam. It then it became my now…….

      Peace, Love & Adam Always,

  2. January 31, 2010 2:50 pm

    As a huge fan of Adam Lambert, his sexuality is not an issue for me at all. I am always dumbfounded at the level of prejudice towards gay men and women that is prevalent in the States. There is not nearly the prejudice here in Canada. Oprah said that she thinks Adam is changing the perceptions and opening minds and hearts. I have seen evidence of that over the past several months. Fans have admitted to being somewhat prejudiced and falling for Adam has changed all that because in the end they see him as a beautiful and humble man and a talented singer not a gay man. to them he is simply Adam! I have heard stories of other people opening thier hearts and minds toward prejudices as well.
    I never understood the hosility towards gays by some people. We are all human and we should all be given the same amount of respect. Adam is a humble, grounded,hard-working, beautiful man who is so full of positive light that it is blinding at times. There are people that hate him simply because he is gay! That is not right and it needs to change. I have seen a change, all be it small from the media as well. Some journalists have stopped writing the headline”openly gay singer Adam Lambert”, instead they simply say Glamrocker or singer Adam Lambert. My hope is that the words gay or openly gay before his name will be dropped completely because the fact is he is a man but first and foremost he is a singer/entertainer who just happens to be gay. It’s understood. I bet people don’t introduce you as gay sweetsexysean do they? Adam sang A change is going to come in the last night of competition, which is a fitting song because I think whether he wants to be or not he will be the agent of change towards gay prejudice in the world just be being who he is as a person.

  3. joy2adam permalink
    February 15, 2010 2:40 am

    Juneau & Xena,
    I just wanted to tell you how much I enjoyed reading your blog. Yet another place for the Glamily to unite and celebrate this genuine, appealing, loving, and talented man we call Adamazing…And he is that, and so much more to us. We’ve been given a true, beautiful gift, and his parents should be so proud of how they raised him, and we respect and thank them for that.
    His power, aura, magnetism, or whatever we choose to call it, that he has over us is, the way I see it, our miracle. He has changed many people’s opinions toward gays, (for the better), he’s taught us to be ourselves with no regrets or no shame. He has given us a never-ending, heart-throbbing romance with his presence that, I believe, most us have never experienced. Our Adam is a shining sparkly star that has enlightened our lives with fun, dance, song, imagery, compassion, understanding, humility, and his beautiful smile and personality. We have needed this bright shiny star for a very long time,…something to lighten our lives, remind us of how important each individual is, try and keep peace with others, and be non-judgemental. We so needed his beautiful positive outlook on life, it’s given so many of us a more positive way to see things in our own lives. That’s why I see him as our MIRACLE, because he’s touched so many people in so many wonderful ways…and everyone wants to listen to music and dance again!! People of EVERY age!!! How special is THAT to bring young & old to a common bond!
    I’m so proud of him as a human being, and in awe of his incomparable talent. He is simply ADAMAZING! And I love him so much for everything he’s brought to our lives.
    Can’t wait to read your book; and thank you for taking the time to write it and share it with us.
    Love, Joy

  4. irish1139 permalink
    March 13, 2010 4:41 pm

    It is time for all people to be who they are and out of the closet. When it is time for a social change (although slow) human history always provides a leader. I have known from the beginning of American Idol that Adam is that leader. He doesn’t know it, but I and millions of others do. Don’t ask me how God, fate, destiny (or whatever you want to call it) in time provides that leader to humanity, but he/she comes to earth and changes humankind.

    The suffering of gays and lesbians will soon be over. It takes so long for humans to smarten up. I can tell when I talk to my granddaughter (16 years old) that it is happening as we speak. It won’t be long now. The old ways and mind sets are on their way out. We are all connected. Adam is love. Adam was the first symbol of man. How appropriate that he should be called “Adam.”

    • October 19, 2012 9:34 pm

      :))) I want to say to everyone who is HERE NOW, on this planet, gay or straight and working to create this together: thank you for being here! It’s going to be amazing.
      About the suffering and its end, I found this myth version a couple of years ago. It touched me really deeply and I am still discovering all the things it teaches me about. Maybe others can also find pride in connecting with it.

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